Feel free to leave comments at the end of a post, I enjoy reading the comments. This is a chance for me to connect with my friends and family. My blog is all over the place with different topics, hence the title. I write about what ever is going on currently in my life, or about random thoughts and observations. My Blog is my public diary.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Three Cousins all Under One Roof
Some how after Kara was born I ended up with 3 cribs, which turned out good for when all three babies/toddler are staying here to each have there own bed to sleep in. We are so happy that they were able to make a visit out here. It is so fun to watch the cousins all interact. We have our hands full though...double the diapers with both Abidan and Kara. Luckily Ephram is potty trained, he is 3 yrs old and doesn't have to wear the diapers. Nap time is a challenge too with getting all three to nap the same time. Right now, the two babies are napping and Ephram is having lunch. Later on after the naps we are heading over to Walmart Super center, where there is a portrait studio. Kyoung and I are going to get the kids dressed in the M&M costumes for a group photo (to be posted later on another post).
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Kara's Full Day With a Babysitter
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Kara's Firsts for Many
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Following a Train of Thought
I was at a friends house and they recently got a puppy. My friends, three year old, daughter, remembers when I was pregnant and is looking at Kara now as a baby...She understands that Kara was in my tummy and now she is a baby. She understands that she use to be a baby and was in her mommies tummy... SO... She looks at the dog, a baby dog...and asks, "Mommy, did the puppy come out of your tummy?" Giggling in response, "No. The puppy came out of a Dogs tummy." "I can only have human babies come out of my tummy..." Little girl then said, "and Martells tummy too?" "Yes, our puppy came from a mommy dog, and Kara came from Martiel"
It was so cute! I could see how this makes sence in her train of thought. Very funny.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
I'm in a love/hate relationship with...
Back when Andrew and I lived in Grover Beach, CA there was a Wal-mart with a great photo processing center. I would only go there for my one hour photos...this was years ago when one hour processing wasn't all that common and was more expensive elsewhere. Plus the Wal-mart photo center only makes you pay for the photos that turned out. I would have some blurry pics or bad shots from using a Film camera (back then) and would not have to keep those shots or pay for them. Of course now, in 2009 I have a digital camera, and online photo ordering to where I can select which photos I want, and pick them up at my local, one-hour photo center at Walgreen's. I don't go to Wal-mart any longer for the photos. I was basically trying to boycott Wal-marts for the past 10 years, and only shop there on a needed basis, such as the use of the Photo center. Wal-greens is my photo center now and I no longer needed Wal-mart.
When we lived in Cincinnati, Ohio there was a "Supercenter" being built right in front of our Apartment Complex. It was such an eyesore! It was being built the entire year that we lived in Ohio. The road to our place was constantly bothered by construction hazards and blocking our main road for a while. This made me HATE Wal-mart even more. By the time the Supercenter was going to finally open, Andrew and I had moved away and over to Missouri.
So here we are living in Missouri for the past 3 years and the Wal-mart here is 24 hours open. It is yet another crappy Wal-mart to which I prefer to shop elsewhere. ONLY it was convenient being open at 12:08 at night. I would be driving home from work and I would need some more bread or something random for the next day. I fell for the 24 hour convenience and would only shop there when other places were closed... and I just need to drop in for a few items.
I still hated shopping there. Since the Wal-mart is open "24 hours" the customers who shop around midnight... it is an obstacle to shop around the staff unpacking inventory and restocking shelves. It is so annoying to shop there at the wee hours of the night. The aisles are cluttered up and easily trip happy over wood pallets and cardboard piles!
So I really do hate Wal-mart...BUT I love Wal-mart at the same time. It is a love hate relationship I have for the store. I loved it for the photo-center, I loved it for open 24 hours and I hate it for being The Wal-Mart that squashes and puts other businesses out of business. I hate Wal-mart for the unpleasant shopping experiences in the midnight hour. And I hate that their pharmacy is not 24 hours inside a 24 hour store!
MY DILEMMA: A Supercenter Wal-mart has it's grand opening TODAY here in Manchester, MO. DO I GO TO IT? I can finally see what a super Walmart is all about? and poke around... take it all in? Maybe there will be free stuff and drawings to take part in, by shopping on their grand opening day? OR! DO I BOYCOTT & NOT SHOP THE SUPERCENTER? I know I will eventually shop there, might as well be on the grand opening day? I do need some more bread...I just don't want to kill any local stores who will go out of business because of this Supercenter/ ONE STOP SHOP opening in town.
Quoted from the Wal-mart site in an artical about the local location having it's grand opening:
"Approximately 175 new positions were created as a result of the relocation. More than 75 of the store’s associates have worked for Walmart for more than 10 years, including ten associates who have worked at the store since its original opening in 1988. Community Organizations Benefit from Grand-Opening Grants As part of Walmart’s commitment to the communities in which it operates, $27,000 in grants from the Walmart Foundation will be presented during the grand-opening celebration. Eight local non-profit organizations will each receive grants to support programs that serve the community including: Mid East Area Agency on Aging, City of Manchester, Circle of Concern, St. Oouis Community College, Parkway School District, St. Louis County Canine, Manchester Shop with a Cop, American Legion Fund..."
It is a half hour till the grand opening at 8am today. Do I love it or hate it? Do I shop or not shop? Kara is sleeping, so I will wait for her to wake, then I have to also go over to the YMCA for my workout class...so maybe I will shop there on grand opening day, but just not at the 8 o'clock hour of craziness! I am not that much in love with the store to be apart of the Grand opening ceremonies. I'll think about it...and check it out later today, after my workout. Kara and I will explore the new world this after noon.
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
Free and Fun
pics to post later...
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Let's Talk Evelution

Thursday, August 13, 2009
Happy Birthday to Me



I'm doing a girls night out at the Melting Pot. It's going to be Chocolate fondue and cocktails on Saturday. I'm rounding up my gal pals to celebrate the big 31. Andrew will watch Kara that night.
People are asking me what I want for my birthday...So here is a Birthday Wish List: Sun Flowers, Ziggy Marly kids CD, Toyota Rav4, baby girl toys, gas card, Black Eyed Peas CD, babysit Kara coupon for one night out with Andrew, a cute top...Size L for lovely...
I posted the Birthday Wish list on my facebook page and some of my friends replied to it:
Julie - I told u I will babysit anytime and it doesn't have to be your b-day gift.
Kim - Rav4...who's gonna get that one? Ya better ask Andrew to buy it! :) I would babysit anytime if I lived there! Move back here (to California) and I will watch Kara!!!
Martiel - Thanks for the babysitting offers. What is the babysitting rate though? I am wishing for a COUPON to use on babysitting one night.... :)
To Julie, We will take you up on the offer to watch Kara when we decide to go to the Cheesecake Factory over by you.
To Kim, I want my next car (new or used) to be a Rav4 type car, like the Nisan Murano or ANY of those that are shaped like that. So that there is room for the baby AND the Dog. He would go in the back with the stroller.
Facebook Brings People Together.
I am trying to tell my mom this, and have her join facebook. She can keep up with photos of her granddaughter Kara, and chat back and forth or keep in contact with her sister who is also on Facebook, and even get reconnected with old school friends, etc. The possibilities are endless. BUT my mom is being "stubborn" and is boycotting Facebook, based on the negative uses the news has reported about. There was the one news story of a woman and her daughter were teasing and tormenting another school girl on MySpace (website similar to Facebook) and that girl ended up killing herself. I believe that the woman went to jail for being involved in the girls suicide? But that is one side to Facebook and Myspace.
Facebook for me is not like that Myspace example at all. I am able to connect and chat with a wide range of people I know using one website. It is a great tool. Here is a sampling of my chats to others about baby Kara:
Martiel- "Kara was talking in her verbal sounds....she totally said Mmmaaa ma mom mmm... does that count? wish full thinking ;D"
New Topic:
Martiel- "Kara's little baby nostrils are too tiny to pick! has a little booger....she can't blow her nose lol how does she get the booger out? It's staring me in the face, this little baby nose and a booger!!!!
Verda - "use the blue aspirator - its shaped like a bulb on one end with a pointy tip (baby nostril size) on the other. great for vacuuming out baby boogers."
Martiel - "I forgot I even had that thing, I have two from the hospital...thanks Verda! There's so much to learn and odd little things like baby boogers...silly but I'm learning."
Mym - "the hospital bulbs are the best...put a few drops of saline (salt water) they have it pre-made for babies and let it soften the boogies and then use the bulb. if the boogie is right there but cant get it with your nail, use the tissue like you would, it will stick to the tissue like magic! good luck!"
Connie - "lol cute...I do know about the boogie sucker, they (babies) hate it but it works ...is it still there ?.....hope not...."
Martiel - I replied, "No the Booger is gone...I will def try the bulb next time though. That wont be the only booger she gets, lol. More to come...ahh the joys of motherhood!"
Connie - then said, "lol a boogie is nothing , wait til she wakes and paints her crib with poopie, and you see a bit around her mouth."
New topic:
Martiel - some how I've ended up with three diaper bags... a baby bottle in one and the formula in another...good thing all 3 bags were in the car when I was out with Kara, today.
Now we are home and settled in from running errands. I am so board, Kara is napping, Duke is at the groomers, and Daddy is at work...guess I'll take a nap too...but I'm not tired...
Shawn - Oooo I have an idea for some excitement...wake Kara up!!!! :)
Martiel - Good one Shawn.
Matrika - suggested, "Enjoy the silence while it lasts!"
Kim - Watch TV or a movie OR make a romantic dinner for Andrew. :) ...
Martiel - I am watching TV...hence the bored part! lol
New topic:
Martiel - Kara is 4 going on 5 months this Aug 23. Each new month is a beautiful experience. Right now she is blowing little bubbles and giggling, as her new talent. ;)
Sara - (her daughter) is 3 months now and growing so quickly. Time is so fast. It is amazing to see how much they change and learn in a short few months, huh?
Martiel - I know, every moment is so special. She is starting to grab everything now too. We think she is going to be left handed?
JOIN FACE BOOK MOM! Ignore the news stories and listen to your daughter. ;)
Friday, August 07, 2009
Power Outage
Go green! Unplug items in your house that rarely get used. Also buy clocks with batteries instead of the plug kind to prevent having to run around the house setting the time on 4 different clocks!
Thursday, August 06, 2009
Who knew?
I think I know what you know...Tell me what you know and I'll let you know if what you know is what I know...Do you know the same thing I know? Because, no one is suppose to know, how do you know what I know? I don't know the whole thing, I just know a little, do you know more than what I know? I don't know! I can't believe it! I KNOW!
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Litter Bugs!
Some people do this and especially at street intersections...why is that? There are signs posted every once and a while stating that there is a fine for littering. Therefore the police have the option to pull you over and site you a ticket for littering.
What gets me about this particular lady in her car flicking a cig out onto the street is that she then takes a last sip of her soda can wiggles it in her hand and sees that it is empty...while sitting at this red light... why then did she place it in the cup holder to save and throw out later? Why not toss the soda can out onto the street as well? Oh that would be bad, she wouldn't want to LITTER! What she could have done is sipped her last sip of soda and puffed her remaining puff of the cig and toss the cig into the empty can. Placing it in the cup holder of her car, temporarily till she reached the chance of tossing BOTH into a trash can. Just throw the can on the street next time, it is the same annoying thing as flicking out a cig.
The light turns green, she drives straight through, and I turned left.
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Free is always good. :)
First off I had to find a shop to fix my vacuum. I found the OK Vacuum shop near by, the guy fixed it for free! He replaced the rubber belt and brush roll...FREE
As I was stopped at a stop light, I peak at Kara in the back and her car seat was slanted to the left. It was no longer snugly fastened to the back seat. I had to think quickly and find a place to reinstall the car seat, to keep her safe. I was just down the street from a fire station. I dropped in to the fire house and Fireman Greg, the certified Baby Seat Installer, properly hooked in Kara's car seat...FREE
Went to target to return some baby things that I never ended up using. The customer service gal gave me store credit on a gift card, to shop with. With the gift card I bought the baby sleep wedge; to help Kara from rolling in her sleep, and the Michael Jackson CD with all the #1 songs on it....sort of free by using the gift card.
Then at Walgreens I bought two, 20 oz, cokes and got a pack of gum for...you guest it...FREE!
4 o'clock rolls around and I have to start heading into work. No traffic on the highway, and I got to work 15 minutes early. To top off my good day I went on my dinner break to the employee cafeteria and found a delicious menu to eat from. There was spinach salad, fresh fruit and vegi burgers...ALL FREE! It just added onto my day of free experiences and my luck kept on coming. Today was such a great day and mostly FREE!
Monday, July 06, 2009
Happy 3rd and 5th of July!

We first went to a BBQ on Friday the 3rd with Andrews coworkers. It was at Todd and Diann's. Their house was across the river in IL. and down a little road out in the middle of corn fields. They have a big house with a nice size pool in the back where everyone was at for the BBQ. Too bad Kara wasn't just a wee bit older and she could have tried out the pool for the 1st time. There were other kids there slashing and jumping in all night long. Three boys would repeatedly jump off of the diving board, get out of the pool, and jump back in off the diving board. It was fun to watch, they were getting creative with each jump in. But it was also tiring watching them go in and out of the pool, they had so much energy!
Our friend, Jay, who works with Andrew was at the BBQ and held Kara for a while. New best friends, he was so good with holding her, a natural. Baby Kara loves her daddy, Andrew. Everyone got their turn holding her.
Once it got dark some of the guys set off fireworks and the load noise startled Kara only twice...the rest of the time she was mesmerized by the pretty colors up in the sky.
The second BBQ was on Sunday the 5th of July. We went to our friend, Julies place. A smaller group of people than the 11st BBQ. My friend, Carissa gave her this cute onezie that reads, "baby's 1st fourth" I dressed Kara in that with the hat that was with the dress she had and a pair of jean shorts. She is starting to grow out of her newborn onezies and into her 0-3 month and the 3-6 month clothes.
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Useless Road Signs
The second sign reads, "Accident reduction zone." Shouldn't ALL areas that people drive in be an accident reduction zone? We as drivers should drive with caution and prevent accidents from happening in the other areas too. Not just that area the sign is posted, for that "zone."
The third sign I saw put up in my area is, "Drug Free Zone." Darn I wanted to deal my drugs on that corner and snort some crack on my lunch break! Where is the Drug Zone then? I'll go there! Silly. Of course that particular area and everywhere else is a "drug free zone" because drugs are illegal and there are not any designated places to do drugs.
Are we seriously spending our tax dollars on new signs stating the obvious and waisting money like this? We need to budget better, we are in a recession and economy is down. The city doesn't have the extra money to post at least 3 new signs up around town. I noticed these three useless signs, there are probably more posted that I don't know about.
Another thing is personalized car plates. The car infront of me this morning reads, "PRPLXD." What does it mean? Purple XD, and it is on a RED car? what is the XD part? There needs to be a bumper sticker decoding liscence plates when they are personalized and don't make sence. It should be a requirement. I don't get 1/2 of the plates I come across sitting in traffic. Some though are very clever!
Monday, June 22, 2009
Choices
Milk chocolate or Dark chocolate
Scotch or Bourbon
Ketchup or Mustard
Ice Cream or Sorbet
Icing or No Icing
Mac or Windows
Pants or Skirt
Long Hair or Short Hair
Breast or Bottle
Ice Cream Soda or New York Egg Cream
Creamy or Chunky
Isle or Window
Smoking or Non-smoking
Plane or Train
White Gold or Yellow Gold
Rocks or Neat
Steam Room or Sauna
Tea or Coffee
Sugar or Splenda
Fiction or Non-fiction
Sleep or Work
Flats or Heals
Meat or No Meat
Sauce or Dry Rub
Automatic or Stick Shift
Bar Soap or Body Wash
Dressed Salad or Dressing on the Side
Driver or Passenger
Seek-n-Find or Crossword
Now or Later
Coke or Pepsi
White Wine or Red Wine
Cranberry Mimosas or Orange Juice Mimosas
Reality TV or Documentary
CNN or BBC
Camping or Lodging
Beaching or Hiking
White or Wheat
Betty or Wilma
Tom or Jerry
I don't know what this says about me in the choices I made or how you will perceive it. Don't read too deeply into some of these. It is just a fun little list of things in life we choose one over the other on. I choose Mustard over Ketchup only because there are so many kinds of mustard and only one kind of ketchup, it is so boring. Mustard is adventurous. My favorite mustard is the kind with the seeds. I choose the wheat over the white, because I never liked how white bread gets stuck to the roof of my mouth. Annoying! Wheat bread is the better choice. Passenger over Driver, I hate driving where I don't know where I am and someone else is giving the directions, I get all turned around. I just want to be the passenger, better yet a passenger sitting in the back of a limo and sipping on my Orange Juice Mimosas, not worrying about how to get from point a to point b...just as long as I get there. I suck at directions and can easily get lost. The train over plane I choose, because I have many fond memories of riding the train to my daddy Kenny's house to visit him for a week at a time and sitting in the viewing car, with the swivel chairs. I miss you dad, and miss my train trips to visiting you.
While on the topic of Choosing and choices...I never liked the phrase, "Beggars can't be choosers..." OK...so beggars can't be choosers, but can choosers choose to beg? I always think of this when some annoying person says that phrase.
Sunday, June 14, 2009
BOGUS! Photo contest!
https://www.greatamericanphotocontest.com/voter1/index_e.aspx?referid=WlcmKobe&p=1527435&x=.jpg
Once you click on the link to vote it wants you to enter in more information and do surveys, or sign up for stuff...What kind of contest is this? Seems like a marketing ploy, to get people to sign up for junk. I was excited to submit a photo and POSSIBLY win a $2,500 savings bond.
THEN on top of the bogus voting part, I also get an email saying that my photo was selected to publish in a photo book of some sort...I can convienantly oder a copy of this published book with my daughters photo entry for a small fee...just fill out the credit card info, etc...NO THANK YOU
I am not going to pay for a photo contest, I should be winning the book with her photo published...another marketing scam.
Saturday, June 06, 2009
Nature Kicked My Butt!
I have not exercised in a whole year basically. I was pregnant most of 2008, but went on walks around the neighborhood...My little 1/2 hour walks around my neighborhood does not compare at all to the walking I did today! WOO! I worked up a sweat, got out of breath, drank my bottled water, etc. It was so rejuvenating. I look forward to next Saturday to do it all over again. The park we hike in is so beautiful, with trees and a lake down below. I might even want to go back on my own with a friend and do some Kayaking in the water there. I will have to look into more info on this park and see if there are rentals available for Kayaking.
Tuesday, June 02, 2009
All Hail the Gods!
I video taped it on my camera to share with my Cali folks. Those of you who don't really experience hail at all. There was a hail storm about 20 years ago in Morro Bay...but that was only one time and back when I was a kid. Other than that one time, this was a first for me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_IYBqAftDw
the link will take you to my home-video of the hail storm that was in my back yard.
Monday, June 01, 2009
Happy Birthday!
Kara is cooing a happy birthday to her daddy! It is the big 3-1, the start of a new decade... one year down 9 more to go until the big 40. eek!?